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Cock and Ball Play

Based on years of experience with different slaves, I want to stipulate the difference between cock and ball play and cock and ball torture (CBT), as I see it.

Cock and ball play is different for each person. Never do you see such variation between males than in their ability to take pain to either their cock and/or balls. Just because a male has a tough exterior does NOT mean he can take pain better than a male of small stature or fragile appearance.

In a nutshell, what may be excruciatingly painful to one male, may feel really nice for another and vice versa; and any quality dominant can work this out quickly and without causing unnecessary pain.

Cock and Ball Play V CBT

Cock and Ball Bondage Plus Ready For CaningIn this picture I’ve done some nice and simple rope bondage and made a ball splitter (separating the balls), that’s left the cock exposed for play. The cock is now sitting upon my padded leather covered wooden pony (nice and comfortable). Now its ready for some gentle slapping with my crop. This may seem like something you’d like and others may think this would hurt… note I said gentle.

 

The bondage is tight around the balls. If I tapped those with my crop, yes that would hurt due to lack of circulation, just like nipple clamps. However, this little session was not about the balls. So the rope bondage cockring and ball splitter, plus slapping the cock lightly is cock and ball play.

 

If I were to slap the balls, or slap the cock hard or even cane the top of the cock, that would be CBT.

Knowing if and when to progress to harder play is the mark of a good dominant. I pride myself on starting lightly. It’s obvious to me when males want to go further into CBT. There is no point in worrying whether I’ll go to far. Going too hard too fast with those new to BDSM is not my style.

Always keep in mind that many males who can tolerate huge amounts of pain, have been able to do this from the start. It’s as if they were not only attracted to it, but born to it.

On the opposite end of the scale are those who jump through the ceiling at the slightest squeeze of the balls. I’m not really suited to these males. Drama queens have no place in my dungeon. I’m sure there are “others” you can see who are happy to pander to you whims.

I talk to all clients before sessions to gauge where they may be at with their pain tolerance.

Know that although I don’t do scripts (scripts are specific words and actions laid out by the client), I am happy to introduce you to a new sensation (e.g., one kick to the balls) for those curious about a specific activity. You can be assured that with introductory experiences, I will not go further without knowing you request such. I don’t want my clients afraid to try new things.

So cock and ball play is subjective in a sense. You may be so used to CBT that your pain tolerance is quite high and anything less than extremely painful to most, is considered by you as cock and ball play.

Other forms of cock and ball play include mild squashing, binding for short periods of time, mild electro play, light slapping, introductory ballstretching to the clients level. Chastity, learning how to wear a cockring and different forms of cockrings, including triple cockrings and urethral sounding.

Think of your session as a menu that you choose a bit of this and that.

I do not rush through putting multiple toys on you. All my sessions are done in a relaxed manner.  Not only will there be a time limit but also a toy limit. I need to state this due to my connection with Black Rabbit Premium Leather and the large range of toys at my disposal.

I can buy toys from Black Rabbit for use in my sessions, but considering I’m purchasing them, the deciding factor as to whether I choose to own such a toy will be mine alone. Clients are welcome to purchase toys for me to use on them at cost. These toys remain in my possession and must be paid for prior to the session commencing.

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